Friday, May 4, 2012

Words and the power behind them! Part I

I am reading a book, "The Power of Woman's Words." This quote from the book will be the beginning of a series on 'Words, Words, Words!' I am being humbled and awed at the power that my and for that matter all of us have within our our simple communication through words. So here is the beginning of yet another series from my Tips for the Harried Woman! :)

"You are going to meet an old lady someday. Down the road, ten, twenty, thirty years; she's waiting for you. You will catch up to her. What kind of old lady are you going to meet?

She may be a seasoned, soft and gracious lady. A lady who has grown old gracefully, surrounded by a host of friends - friends who call her blessed because of what her life has meant to them. She may be a bitter, disillusioned, dried-up cynical old buzzard, without a good word for anyone or anything - soured, friendless, alone. The kind of old lady you will meet will depend entirely upon you.

She will be exactly what you make of her, nothing more, nothing less. It is up to you. You will have no one else to credit or blame. Every day, in every way, you are becoming more and more like that old lady. You are getting to look more like her, think more like her and talk more like her. You are becoming her. If you live only in terms of what you are getting out of life, the old lady gets smaller, drier, harder, crabbier, more self-centered. Open your life to others. Think in terms of what you can give and you contribution to life, and the old lady grows larger, softer, kinder, greater.

These little things, seemingly so unimportant now - attitudes, goals, ambitions, desires - are adding up inside where you cannot see them, crystallizing in your heart and mind. The point is these things don't always show up immediately. But they will - sooner than you think. Some day they will harden into that old lady; nothing will be able to soften or change them then.

The time to take care of that old lady is right now, today. Examine your motives, attitudes, goals. Check up on her. Work her over now while she is still pliable, still in a formative condition. Then you will be much more likely to meet a lovely, gracious old lady at the proper time.

Father, may the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be pleasing in Your sight today. Help me to be all that You created me to be. Amen."


  1. Thank you for this wonderful reminder that we don't just "become" who we are or will be, but that we have a choice. I pray the "old lady" I meet will be lovely and gracious. =)

  2. I, too, want to find a gracious 'old lady' in my later years. Thanks for posting.